Emotional orgasms
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Emotional orgasms
We are born with the need to reach orgasms in all facets of our lives. We strive daily unconsciously to reach them.
Although dictionaries describe orgasms as the most intense pleasure in intimate interactions, this hub is not AT ALL about that kind of orgasms, but about the kind we are all able to experience daily in public.
Laughter is an emotional orgasm
We wake up in the morning with a desperate need to be happy. Every day, the whole day long, we have the desire to be happy and contented. We actually want to live every minute of a day in a state of ultimate joy. We - who don't suffer depression - strive daily unconsciously or/and consciously to reach mind-boggling peaks of happiness, preferably more than once per day -
Those most marvelous outburst of laughter...
Laughing is certainly the most enjoyable pleasure humans are able to experience. We need to laugh. An outburst of laughter relieves us of the tension that spirals up in us while we are merely breathing in this world with all its challenges. Laughter makes us literally feel lighter, more positive and it fills us with energy we need to reach our goals.
Our need for laughter motivates us to watch comedies, read jests, go on holidays and to have interactions with friends.
QUOTES:
- Laughter is an org-um-gasm triggered by the inter-um-course of sense and nonsense. ~Author Unknown
- At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities. ~ Jean Houston
- Laughter is an instant vacation. ~ Milton Berle
- A good, real, unrestrained, hearty laugh is a sort of glorified internal massage, performed rapidly and automatically. It manipulates and revitalizes corners and unexplored crannies of the system that are unresponsive to most other exercise methods. ~Author unknown, from an editorial in New York Tribune, quoted in Quotations for Special Occasions by Maud van Buren
Crying is an emotional orgasm
Sometimes the orgasm of happiness is crying instead of laughing. This phenomenon is rooted in raw sadness lying in our sub-consciousness, which sadly increases our normal tension caused by breathing/living. Once crying relieved us of this extra, unneeded, destructive tension, we are able to smile and eventually laugh.
Most of us do not reach this kind of orgasms easily. We tend to be angry, short-tempered, moody and even drugged for an unknown period of time before we eventually burst out crying.
Crying relieves tension caused by sadness. There is, for sure, no adult on this planet living without sadness in his/her heart. The mere fact that nothing and nobody in this life are perfect, saddens us tremendously. Anger is one of the best sources of unhappiness and extreme sadness. Angry people who pretend or say they are happy don’t know themselves not to talk about knowing others.
Crying – uncontrolled in privacy – makes us feel lighter, more positive, stronger and capable to continue the challenging journey through life. Crying may be the opposite of laughing, but it is in fact only the flip side of the same coin called 'Emotional Orgasm'.
Our need for crying motivates us to watch movies (soul-touching dramas), and to read (and/or write) fiction and poems, to practice interesting hobbies and to stay home where we feel save and comfortable.
QUOTES:
- To weep is to make less the depth of grief. ~William Shakespeare, King Henry the Sixth
- Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart don't know how to laugh either. ~Golda Meir
- What soap is for the body, tears are for the soul. ~Jewish Proverb
- Let your tears come. Let them water your soul. ~Eileen Mayhew
- Unless you have been very, very lucky, you have undoubtedly experienced events in your life that have made you cry. So unless you have been very, very lucky, you know that a good, long session of weeping can often make you feel better, even if your circumstances have not changed one bit. ~Lemony Snicket
I have met a man who does not aggravate my need for crying. During our recent holiday of seven weeks I enjoyed many-many outbursts of laughter with him. And, of course, I cried when we said ‘so-long-until-we-see-each-other-again’.
Maybe we shall never see each other again. But I will always remember him as 'the man who was able to give me multiple emotional orgasms'.
© Martie Coetser (June 2011)
Thanks for all the laughs, Dave! May we soon enjoy laughing together again :)
A hearty laugh gives one a dry cleaning, while a good cry is a wet wash. ~Puzant Kevork Thomajan
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What a great read Martie, I can really say our 51 day Holiday was something very special for us both, yes its good to laugh my love.
Dave xx
In the photo you look like you are going to bust with joy. It doesn't get better than that. Thanks for the read.
Martie, This is a wonderful hub as those emotions are so important in the human experience of living a fulfilled life. I enjoyed this hub very much.
Hi, Martie, first of all let me say what a fantastically happy picture! not sure how you spell fantastically! lol you look bursting with happiness, you are so right about the laughter, I have laughed until I cried, with pains in my side, nearly falling on the floor! what a great feeling! rated up and up! cheers nell
Emotions are not always something we acknowledge and sometimes, crying and sadness get misconstrued as something bad for us to feel. Great hub.
Very provoking hub. This hub so beautiful and contain educational article. I love joke and laughing. But you make it more better than I thought. I learn much from you, Martie. Thanks for share with us. I really enjoy all pictures and videos above. Rated up!
Love and peace,
Martie, You look so happy. Why does it not surprise me that you would write an article about laughter? I know you've found happiness and found laughter again. I'm so very happy for you. I've always believed that a day without laughter is a wasted day. Thank you for sharing. I especially like the quote by Golda Meir and the laughing baby is adorable.
Cheers
I love what you said, using orgasms as an analogy. This is a great hub, as laughter and tears are such strong emotions we share as humans. The quote at the bottom of this hub is perfect. I will have to remember that one! Voted up and awesome. Thanks for sharing a new spin on the word with us. ; )
Very thought-provoking write, Mr Epi-Man ! Enjoyed the analogy! As usual, you have written another AWESOME hub!
Thanks for sharing!
your friend,
M.O
The beautiful photo at the end of your exceptional hub says it all, Martie. I am delighted you both appear to have found your soul mates in each other and can enjoy the powerful force of laughter in your lives. May you and David continue to be positive inspirations for each other.
I have to say, he IS cute, but you, my dear, are positively ravishing. Trust me.
I really like this hub...you've touched on laughter and crying beautifully and comparing these releases to a great orgasm is perfect! I think of the sky having the ultimate orgasm when it is sunset and the clouds are colored so beautifully with pinks, oranges, faint apricot and flaming reds....here in SE Kansas this happens alot and I think ; "the sky is having an orgasm." such is laughter and sobbing..giant releases of pent up emotions...like orgasm. Very well written and, I wish you the best with your sweetie! UP Awesome Beautiful
Martie, this is one happy hub! Your faces in that last picture seem to shine right off this computer screen! I'm delighted for you both. As for your look at laughter and tears, you said it well and in an original way! Loved it!
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, you are always an inspiration for me and to see you so happy is a true joy!
I might have laughed myself an orgasm a time or two. Well, close at least. To me, there is no greater pleasure than laughing.
I just love your take on this hub. What a great view and I never would have thought about this in the light you present it- very clever!
Very nice article! And don't forget the story I heard that happened 50 years ago of that person who had just been told by his MD that he had incurable cancer and that he had 6 months to live so the MD said just do what you want to do.
He bought a bottle of Bourbon, bought some Laurel and Hardy movies, cked into a hotel for the weekend and just watched the movies and laughed, laughed, etc, etc. He then felt good to go home and continued watching the Laurel and Hardy and continued to laugh and was still laughing 15 years later - oh and the bourbon was never touched.
Yes laughter can be not only the best medicine but also orgasm.
Great Hub! We need to feel emotions and to laugh! I often cry but actually and luckily for joy!
This is a fantastic non-sexual orgasm
Very good hub.
You had me at your delightful title Martie- there are few that could share their happiness and turn it into a thought provoking and charming hub . You are one of them - it's a joy to read and engage in. I am delighted to see your sheer joy in the arms of the one you love and adore.. Beautiful!
The emotional orgasms are wonderful moments! Those are the moments where we are totally present and deeply touched in some way! And that is so great. We do need it as a contradiction to our busy lives and fill agendas! I saw a TV program about a women participating in a laughing - course or whatever they called it. The purpose was that people who lacked laughter in their life should learn how to laugh again! I am thrilled to see that you don't need any help in that direction. Both the joy from your words and the photos in this hub transfers to me when reading:)) It is so great to see you here again Martie!
Tina
I was comparing your photo from your previous hub wherein I commented that you seem to be having a lovely time and you replied "I believe the one or three 'devils' that were in my life was just meant to establish the extreme level of joy I now have the privilege to enjoy" Your picture here with David says it all. You look ravishing.I Believe this hub is a continuance of that emotional ebullition :)
Thanks for this hub, You've made me realize the value of having an "Emotional orgasm" from time to time :)
Laughing is completely infectious and simply looking at your photo of you and David together is testament to that. A great hub, laughter is a way to stay forever young I think!
Wonderful article and great photo of you two. I was once making love to a woman and as she reached climax (she was in the dominant position) she passed wind loudly and her hair-piece fell off! We both cracked up and rolled around, so it was the funniest sexual experience I had ever had...orgasm with a laugh, too! Bob
Hello Martie - I just had to come back for a second helping. Oh my gosh that baby YouTube is just totally wonderful. Why do we change so much as we become older? An incredible hub - you just glow with happiness.
While both laughter and crying provide tension relief, I must admit that I espouse laughter as often as possible for a different reason. The endorphins released by a belly laugh or a fit of the giggles help people who have chronic pain more than any pill that comes in a pharmacy bottle. I try to convey that frequently to friends who deal with daily pain. In most cases, they agree whole-heartedly.
I'm glad you've found someone who makes you laugh, Martie. It's always been my opinion that a great sense of humor, kindness and intelligence (in that order) are the most important qualities in a man.
Best regards, JAYE
Very lovely Martie.
This is a perfect hub in my and so many others feelings because not only is it very well written; but because you have laid what so many of us know about the wonders of laughter and crying. The quotes accentuated the article like a cherry on top. Fantastic and endorphin creating pic of you and your David too Ms.Coetser. The instincts were correct on you.
Great title and great hub. Laughing/laughter is such a joy. It is healthy when you can laugh at yourself too. Can't remember the exact number -- but it takes fewer muscle to smile than frown. Maybe you've heard - Turn that frown upside down. You've made my day!
Yes, laughter climaxes can be amazing. Vote up and beautiful.
Martie,
This was excellent. Infact, I gave it a complete run on the voting. I like the idea of the laughter orgasim. I'm going to take a comic book to bed with me tonight, and just before the magic moment, I'll read something funny. The combination should be awesome!
jim
Amazing hub, I love the classifications and explanations, everything is well thought out. This opens whole new ways of thinking to me, thank you very much!
Neat hub Martie. With age can come a cynicism that robs us of those many opportunities to have a good laugh OR to simply let go and cry. We can end up living our lives in the limbo of the emotional in-between, the flat-line of feelings that kills joy and healing. Voted up
I love the term org-un-gasm. It's very childlike and fun. Almost a cheeky word. I've had a great big smile reading this. CF
Martie,
I missed this jewel along the way but marvel at your insight and self discovery. And yes, this one has me laughing and crying with joy for you, my dear friend.
Voted UP & UABI, mar.
My Dear Martie,
POWERFUL and read with a tinge of a tear, in my eye I may not be able to express myself as you do, but i know that you have touched my heart with a love only you can posses. may you find all of life's happiness, you deserve it my Tinkabelle. xx
Dear Martie,
I will forever be indebted to Dave for the transformation that has occurred in you because of his positive influences... so now he is also voted UABI (Useful, Awesome, Beautiful and Interesting...!) Oh yeah, I am a lazy typer too! Love you both, mar.
Thank you Mar' for the kind words.
....got to admit - the title caught my eye and then combined with your name as author and creator of this hub subject - I thought that's why invented sugar - because it doesen't get any sweeter than this - Martie's superb writing, her sacred persona and an emotional/intellectual experience which quite frankly leaves me drained beyond any orgasm - oh god that felt good and I don't even smoke - but someone hand me a ciggy please - just arrived home after work on the coldest bloody night of the year - thus far - in our wretched Canadian winter ...... lake erie time 5:45am
...but please note dear Martie - I only flatter those whom I truly love.
lake erie time 1:22pm just woke up a hour ago from night shift sleep and an extremely cold wind chill alert here by the lake
OMG Martie I so agree! Music is also an emotional orgasm! LOL After hearing an amazing song that touches your soul it's just what you described! My husband just laughs at me! LOL I love this hub, I'm pimping it!! XO
Great hub! I love the video of the baby! Just too darn cute. Voted up!
Great hub! There's nothing like uncontrollable laughter as a release. And the baby video makes me laugh! Great job. Voted up and everything else!
I agree with this hub very much. There's something about releasing an emotion that frees you to feel and to live freely. I laugh most days just because I love that feeling. But I feel the same about crying, letting it go is great as well. This was definitely a great hub to remind us all how wonderful emotions are in our lives.
Martie, what wonderful read this was! I spend a lot of my time laughing and making other people laugh, it's just in me to be like that and there is nothing -um- quite like it!
I don't cry very often but when I do, I always feel better afterwards, Joni Mitchell once sang 'You know laughing and crying is the same release' and I think that's true, though I enjoy one more than the other.
Brill hub, voted up, etc,etc
And I would take the job! :o)
Reading this hub gives me an orgasmic feeling. LOL
Good work Martie!
MartieCoetser! You have just invented emotional porn. Now the whole world is going to seek out and view video of laughing people, and fits of extreme emotional outbursts until the urge that drives them forward is sated. I see now that the amazon hubs about laughter and joke books are going to now be banned. My god, what have you done? Voted up and orgasmic...
A great hub ! Wow..thanks for sharing this , this is the first time to know these things , i know only one kind of orgasm...so ignorant me , only to find out now that even ordinary things that we do such as crying and laughing have an orgasm... awesome ! I learnt a lot from this hub..thanks so much !
















































Deni Edwards 12 months ago
Great hub, Martie! I love the laughter orgasm, and I just love the picture that you included of yourself with your friend. It looks like a massive attack of the giggles!
Thanks for another great read.